“ Hello, my name is…”

Happy March warriors! You will see down below ⬇️ a selfie of me as that is not going to happen so much this year. I had a photo all picked out but then decided a selfie was needed for today. You will know why as this post continues…

It’s my son’s birthday at the end of this month and he’s turning a biggie, 21! 🎉🥹 How is that possible? Still lots to talk about until then though. My title came to mind as I “wrestled” with others today. More on that in a bit, but did any of you watch “ WWE Rivalries” this past Sunday? I was going to mention it last week but totally forgot. 🤦🏻‍♀️ It was about the rivalry between Ultimate Warrior and Hulk Hogan. If you missed it, I’m sure you can find it once they unlock episodes through the A&E app. Maybe another reason I missed discussing it is because every time there would seem to be an upcoming episode on the Ultimate Warrior, it would get shelved for some reason. I might discuss this episode more in length in a future post but for anyone wondering, there was no new information so watch if interested… 🙄

Getting back to those name tags, has anyone ever worn one of those as I can picture exactly how they looked?! This was brought up because of a recent experience. I have many who contact me, but most are marketers and not fully legit with genuine interest in what I write. I also do my research or homework to check them out and this guy was the real deal who cohosts a national podcast. I actually listened to one of their episodes which vary in topics greatly. Jesse Ventura was on a little while back talking about legalizing marijuana which was very interesting. After a few emails and a very brief phone call, they decided to pass on having me on as a guest. No idea on how they found my blog as perhaps people just search?? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I will admit, I was a little disappointed considering the host is a huge wrestling fan but I do write about much else as you know. The phone call was quite abrupt too. The reason they passed and the * ONLY* reason they passed is because I am not Mrs. Warrior. She used to write a blog as well many years ago but not anymore. Yep, they thought I was Dana so maybe on these writings from now on~~~ I will need to possibly sign my name, goodness. 🫤 I have to say this, their loss! It wasn’t for me so I will move forward. BTW, most of their topics are not about the famous either. Also, for a few of these posts~~~ I have signed my name, but you won’t see it very often.

“ Hello, my name is Kathy.” It’s not Dana or even Steve- who was UW’s former manager. Yes, I have been called him too but always with apologizes attached which is super nice. My name is listed on the book as part of the “ profile” for these writings but people perhaps are busy, get too excited before contacting, or even don’t read. I will take some responsibility though so I thank them for bringing that to my attention. Warrior I’m sure would never get confused for another but I gotta say~~~ when he rocked the hair, sunglasses, and some outfits in public, many mention others. Some names I have heard are Bret Michaels (since UW wore a “Poison” hat on occasion,) Ozzy Osbourne ( in his younger days,) Steven Tyler, or even Jon Bon Jovi. All this without the face paint on naturally. Unsure if Warrior would look at any of those guys as complementary but I do know he was an “Aerosmith” fan among others! It’s not like anyone literally thought UW was actually those rockers but just how he resembled them at times in certain ways. UW being that character was a rockstar as I’ve said before… 🎸 Even outside of the character, he still was called those guys!!!

I have also gotten called a celebrity years ago as this woman, (bless her) thought I looked like the actress Lori Loughlin. I had reddish hair like she did when on the sitcom “ Full House” back in the day. I loved the connection, not only because of her beauty but I liked John Stamos then so even better! He was a guy along the same time frame as Warrior so that made my day. 🤭 I was humbled by her comment, but has that ever happened to you? Maybe it has but the impression on you wasn’t favorable. We all might get confused with another’s looks, personalities, or familiar connection but what about actually thinking you ARE that person? I bet that’s rare. Mistaken identity for sure.

Maybe we should all go around wearing those name tags, can you just imagine? All the mystery would be gone and everyone would know you automatically. Well, we know that’s not how the world works and then we wouldn’t have these funny stories to share. There are those times when many say some could have a doppelgänger of sorts. When vacationing in Maine several years ago, we saw this man who looked exactly like my Dad! He even glanced our way so eye contact was made. The kids said: “ What is Grandpa doing here?” 😂 It was comical but I have had other moments like that too. Come on, I bet you have very similar experiences. What about comments such as “ your voice sounds just like…” It could be your laugh, smile, or just expressions that reminds someone of a person who comes to their thoughts. I’m not talking about a relative as those related will share many traits. A famous person however, makes it cool. You might disagree but it’s still a fun topic of conversation.

On a different note, readers may remember when I was a vendor at a book fair many years past and the woman next to me reminded me of my aunt. My mom probably would not think she looked anything like her sister but I did, when younger. It was beautiful to me because a few months prior, my aunt had passed away so this woman brought me much comfort. I told her that too as we had the best time together. My stories (as yes she bought my book) comforted her as well since she recently lost her husband of many years. So see, we can have those “name tags” if you will even with strangers who don’t truly know who we are. Those spontaneous likenesses are so aligned it seems as random folks have no history with us. It’s just an observation. We can take it or leave it.

Another I will end with just popped in my head. A cousin of mine had told me how she thinks I resemble a younger Maria Shriver. Oh, my, I would never have guessed that! 😯 She is still very beautiful and my cousin meant it positively. I don’t see the resemblance but was touched that she did. Maria, (who is related to the Kennedys) used to be married to Arnold Schwarzenegger AND he met a young Jim Hellwig during his bodybuilding days. That is before Jim became the Ultimate Warrior or was even into wrestling. How about * THAT* connection? Maybe I won’t need a name tag after all. Until next time~~~ this is Kathy, not Dana, Steve, Lori, or Maria! Ha ha ha! 🙋🏻‍♀️

P.S. Oh~~~ I did follow a little of WWE’s “Elimination Chamber” just to see. No spoilers here but something shocking happened of course! 😳I am not happy about it. Just like I am not happy about that Rivalries special as well, ugh. Anyways~~~ be YOU warriors because everybody else has their own name… 🫵🏻

The Realness of Rivalries

Last week was all about friends so this week is sorta going in the opposite direction. Not necessarily enemies but rivalries with others is today’s focus. That “realness” is again scripted among WWE performers but just like with friends, the dislike may remain. We all have those rivalries with many people but it’s how we face them that matters.

The excitement and drama of pro-wrestling keeps us glued to our seats and we love all those feuding rivalries. It’s not that way with real life “storylines” as we aren’t drop kicking or slamming someone to the mat! I hope you are not.

Whatever comes up in your relationships, do you keep that rivalry or after a time dismiss it? If Joe wants to put his Christmas lights up in October, does that start a rivalry with you or not? I guess it depends as some have healthy rivalries that are all in good fun. Ya know, like an annual neighborhood party. Some may also just have a rivalry for a brief time like the Ultimate Warrior had with many but then they move on.

Perhaps some rivalries even turn into those friendships of last week. We need to look at the realness of them all. Siblings can be rivals and yes, that is very real. How many of you have that as a rivalry? I didn’t really but it all does get into competition which was another post. Rivalries are everywhere and connect us all. What about that annoying co-worker who seems to have everything going their way while you struggle getting ahead?

Sometimes a rivalry is just about one area of our lives, it gets resolved and then new ones begin. We may have life long friendships based on rivalries but then need to decide if they are worth keeping. Case in point- politics. I will never get political on here but I bet many of you have someone who won’t ever agree with your politics. You are friends but that rivalry of disagreement is real. Would you let your points of view destroy the friendship or would you work to save it? This is tough for all of us but it’s again always a choice. The friendship or the rivalry needs to be decided.

Let’s go back to wrestling for a moment. That photo is the Ultimate Warrior of course giving a promo behind a steel cage. This was for his upcoming SummerSlam match with Ravishing Rick Rude. Yeah, the pics are all about S.S. lately! Their rivalry went on for quite a while. Even though performances are fake, it’s very real emotionally for fans. We get just as absorbed watching as they do acting. The rivalry is real for that time we are involved and following.

Some rivalries will always remain with us like possibly family members where memories can surface. We may also have that work relationship that will be a constant rivalry until someone leaves the business. There are times when a rivalry is brewing without your knowledge. Jealousy can come about or back-stabbing and we are oblivious to the whole thing.

I know there were or perhaps are some WWE rivalries that start out as scripted but then each may really dislike the other. They may never be friends. Most wanted the Ultimate Warrior and Hulk Hogan to be friends but they really weren’t that close. Being good guys meant you weren’t competing against each other, just for fans. Vince McMahon did call them both “consummate professionals” despite their rivalry. They did of course become rivals just once but still not true friends. It wasn’t what everyone wanted but true rivals-no. There are those who live for drama of a rivalry and lose touch with reality if there isn’t one.

So, is it friends or rivals for all of you? Relationships are always a mystery and we go thru many stages of both. Just spend time truly realizing which rivalries are real to you and which are not. Little issues can lead to bigger ones but think about if you really want or need this person in your life. Unlike the stories of pro-wrestling, our true lives are the ones that genuinely matter most.

Take time with this topic warriors and decide if a rivalry is worth putting your gear on for or quite possibly not. It’s your decision to see them all thru. Your life IS real so decide if those rivalries are indeed as well. You don’t need to be behind a steel cage but just battle that rivalry like the warrior YOU are. Keep what matters. Slam what doesn’t! ✊🏻💪🏻👏🏻

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