Over-the-Top October

Has this October been over the top for you just yet readers? I know that’s a bit extreme but wanted to work in a wrestling term with this month of number 10. The beginning of it has been for me with my anniversaries and this one turning 10 in month 10, how about that? I’m using one more WCW pick below of Warrior in ‘98 because it is cool! It’s him running as you can tell but decided to work it in today. 2 more to end the month but no more WCW, at least for now. I hope you are all doing well as I thank you always for being here with me reading while we go along. So, I’m gonna share a quote I read in an email for all of you to reflect upon. Maybe it won’t necessarily apply to you, but I hope it does in someway, somehow.

I will preface with this. When you allow yourself (as I hope you do) a few precious moments in your day to just sit and be, what happens? Anything? Nothing? Are you over over – efforting or not trying much at all? I should say are you being over the top? Only you can answer those. So, take me for example. When I find those moments as I do, I try really hard to make it a priority~~~ a ritual if you will. Whether I’m sitting in a silent meditation, writing, or even connecting with Warrior, I try my best. Truly, I do. I often wondered if all my rituals even mattered at all. Here’s what I have learned as my author pointed out. “ It does not matter the place- every place is made sacred once you enter your heart.” ♥️ OK, she’s actually referencing a place to go when you crave that alone stillness but it is much more than that, of course. Isn’t that great though? For many of us we want that perfect setting, tools, (or gear!) words, and all that in order to make something happen. Very typical because of us who are planners like myself. Are you one? Yes, we need to plan major events like gee~~~ I don’t know a big move which my family did but now I’m thinking a Grand Canyon trip next year for our 25th wedding anniversary.

I’m talking more about the spiritual sense of things which many overlook and that’s just life. Most know my stories of the little things that I preach often. Even if many of you don’t set aside that me time (please do!) we still need to not over analyze everything or attain to perfection. I know right~~~ easier said than done. Us Virgos~~~ and you know who you are have an incredibly hard time with that word. I knew after time to wave that flag of surrender and just let go of the over the top (rope?) theatrics to happen in order for the Universe to acknowledge me. If you’ve read or watched my stuff, you know this. We are already perfect to the Universe. Most if not all my signs from Warrior were NOT like his character in wrestling at all, which might make others disbelieve. I get it readers, I do. We expect big things if we initiate in a big way. I’d set the stage, like the candle, darken the room, say some prayers, watch his media, and even work with my other spiritual tools. Sure, it helps the connection like inviting a friend over when we straighten up our spaces, right? But here’s the part most forget. It’s the intention behind all that, not the concrete ideas.

Once you enter your heart, like she said~~~ it will lineup. It might not come the “perfect” way we want, but it will come. It’s not always the specifics of getting it all right or following how others say to do something. It merely means you are genuine and authentic. That’s how Warrior was in many ways. I remember my most memorable times with Warrior signs were ones I never over planned or prepped for in anyway. I would even have dreams on vacation where I was somewhere else but new places bring new experiences. I had no idea then. You might not have those things like me but I bet you’ve had times in your life where you did very little and then an A-HA idea came your way. Wait a minute though… You might be thinking how you do all the right things consistently every day and have been for a while when not much happens. What’s wrong? I can’t fully answer that for you but don’t ever think it’s not because you aren’t loved or listened to. Maybe you are genuine in the “paper” sense of the word but not true in your heart. It’s like when we might have to memorize things as a kid and don’t fully hear the words or understand them. We just rattle them off like a robot. History class or religion ring a bell 🛎️ for anyone? I’m sure you know. Perhaps your team in spirit (as I like to call it, not my creation) is telling you to just have some more fun without all the over-the-top shenanigans. They are great but shake those ropes once in a while and just BE… Do you get it? I can’t speak for all but that’s just coming from my experiences.

I know Warrior had said everything was over the top when it came to his retirement match with The Macho King. That was true but all us folks aren’t in a wrestling ring performing in a business for thousands of fans watching our every move. Nope. We are in our homes or at our own places of work looking for that breathable time to settle down when we need it. It’s rarely a 3 ring circus event or similar to a WrestleMania, correct? For any wondering, that was WMVII between them.

If you want those moments, make them. Just make them come from your heart no matter the place or even objects you used to get there. You also don’t have to listen to every podcast on the subject you love, buy all the merch (wrestling here…,) watch all the videos, or even follow those on media of interest. No, not at all although we think with society, that’s how we need to be. You can if you like but never believe those are your answers for guidance. They are “helpers” but like Warrior said, you need to do the work and not rely on others to do it just because it’s easier. Another reason is this. You do not need to do all of that just to get acceptance. I have learned that the hard way. Plus, it’s literally physically exhausting doing all of those things. You should not have any guilt because you have FOMO or fear of missing out on the latest. I gave that up a long time ago. If someone gets upset with you, let it go. That’s on them and shouldn’t be weighted down on you.

You can make October over the top but not where you expect something in return. Stay open to any and all possibilities you may not have even thought of. If you want to find that higher self inside, be subtle because that’s how it works. Yes, Warrior did send me not so subtle signs, he sure DID readers! He truly wanted me to know something and message received Mr. Warrior. Bigger isn’t always better in this case but just use your intention from the heart, no matter where you are. I sometimes don’t even say all my manifestations or releases every day because I don’t want to. I won’t be punished and you won’t either. Spirit wants you to feel, not to be a memorized robot. If your place is just an office chair, so be it. It doesn’t have to equate with sitting on a yoga mat or anything like that just to be in tune. It’s the heart that matters, always. Being over the top will work for many but it may not for you. Choose what you like and send it on its way. The place comes from within and your team knows you. Every place is sacred if it matters to you~~~ over the top or not.

P.S. If it helps, make a list of places you find inspirational. You might be surprised. No wrestling arenas, ha! 🤍🙋🏻‍♀️🥰

Happy January Intentions… 👏🏻👍🤍

Here we are warriors in this new year of 2026 as I wish the happiest of days ahead to all of you. I hope you’re all well and getting back into regular routines once again! I missed writing and there’s so much to share today. Let’s begin with a * BIG* milestone of January for me. It has been 10 years now when my Warrior dreams all started back in 2016. They were very frequent and continued for a while. Those beginnings were told in my book 📗 but they originated on here. Come October, these writings will also mark that double digit as I am so excited yet humbled always… 🥹 Remember last year when I changed that word of resolutions to goals? Well, this year is more about intentions as that word fits without tons of pressure.

We always need to do things with right minded or good intentions, correct? I sure hope you do as Warrior did too. The end result might not be exactly the ultimate win but at least we start off trying our best. FINALLY, I will say this though. I still receive multiple emails and or phone calls from book marketers but one guy actually acknowledged Warrior by name! That has never happened before. Everyone begins with those good intentions but they still might receive that dreaded “ no thanks.” This guy probably not knew who Warrior was but at least gave his part in all this a mention. The other topics highlighted included dreams, meditation, intuition, other signs, and a celebrity connection. So, someone along the way DID read my book because of specifics listed. He said I was relatable with my humility and spirituality. I will always take those compliments. 🙏🏻

He had good intentions but not the end result which is OK because then we just go another route. We all do. Let this new year and month bring you choices with many options. I’ve only used a month name in two other posts so here’s my three count! I will mention the photo below as it was my intention to start brand new but this one is not. I did use that clip of “ The Brother Love Show” in the past but not a close-up so here it is today. Another close-up I noticed over the break was of UW at the ‘ 87 Slammy Awards as part of a song number. How had I not ever picked up on THIS but he is holding a sledgehammer! Who remembers my story on that? It was in my top posts of the year. I laughed 😂 so hard on that image while connecting it to my scenario with the casket of a few years after those Slammys. The sledgehammer returns just in a different way! 🤭

Back to intentions as boy, this is a goodie from Christmas time. We have these reindeer 🦌 lights I put on a small table and they play a few songs while lighting up. It’s super cute and I’ve had it a long time. It has a battery in it and you just press the button on or off. One night, my husband and I were watching a classic holiday cartoon that was always one of my favorites as my daughter had a friend over to make ornaments. The son was working so he was not a witness. While I’m singing along to those fun songs in the movie, all of a sudden~~~ the reindeer lights started playing! 😳

I yelled in the other room to my daughter as I thought for sure she reached out of the doorway and turned them on to be funny. I find out later she did not and would not have done that. I can’t assume anything and maybe the battery acted up, who knows? GET THIS though~~~ my husband actually said: “ could that have been spirits or something?” WHAT??? Here’s this guy again surprising me with a comment like that. Christmas is a magical time and electronics as loyal readers know are easy for spirits to manipulate. I wanted a good intention here so decided to meditate on this a little. Do I believe there was a malfunction with the lights? Nope. I DO have my way sometimes of getting information so you can believe what you wish on this. Let’s just say~~~ I always believe after of course connecting other dots or bouncing off all four corners of my squared circle. To think I almost gave them away… I never will now. They are put away to be used in our new home but I paused a little while packing them in the box. 📦

This last good intention concerns an episode of my guys over at “ 80’s wrestling the podcast.” They titled 12/ 18/25 as “ Merch Madness.” Check it out if you’re interested wherever you get your podcasts. I’m on around the 58 minute mark discussing my UW action figure story and cereal box images both told in my book “Spirit and Belief.” I was so grateful to share my humor with the guys and listeners as I received many compliments. They love me, ha ha! 🩷

I always have good intentions when I call in because my stories will never equate with theirs! The following week I called in as well right before Christmas but that was just a few trivia questions. Here’s the funny part. They were playing ads or TV commercials from the ol’ WWF years and you had to guess. I knew a couple but then I was last. They saved the final audio for me and the host SWEARS it was just in random order. Best for last of course! I knew from the beginning as it was one of the first pics I used last year to start 2025. Those “ Slim Jim” commercials where UW was the first spokesman before they switched to Randy Savage who became more iconic. I still see Randy’s image at gas stations or convenient stores with Slim Jim sometimes. Very glad I called in for that one! We’ll see what the guys pull out of the vault this year, which also marks a milestone. It will be 5️⃣ years almost that I’ve been listening to them. I hope they do a great anniversary show.

Well, warriors, I wish you always good intentions as you move through this year. Don’t “run” too much like UW or you might miss something! Next week brings more news so gear up and settle in on an arena of your choice. Happy 2026 readers!

~~~ Kathy

( yep, it’s me again!!!)

P.S. Don’t be “bored” as UW yells to those boys in the Slim Jim ads!