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The Kindness of Kamala 🤼‍♀️💙🥹

HUGE shift from last week warriors so I am excited to bring you today’s post! The name Kamala above refers to the pro wrestler,( a.k.a. James Harris) and NOT our former VP here in the US~ Kamala Harris. Interestingly enough, though how they share those same names, ha! 😂 James Harris, and James Hellwig, (a.k.a. The Ultimate Warrior) BOTH also shared the name of James and last initial of H. Anyone remember my license plate post about “James H” years ago? ☺️I am sharing snippets of Harris’s book today.

“The Ugandan Giant” passed in 2020 but these statements I will detail are from his autobiography- “ Kamala Speaks” published in 2015. I printed out what was posted to the UW Facebook group by Leighton Baller so I thank him for the inspiration today whether he reads this or not. I had to laugh once printing it all out and looking at the papers. After cutting them down to size, I noticed there are 6 papers. 6~~~ which is my number once again as we near the anniversary of WMVI. I swear, that could not have happened any other way… I was so joyful to read these excerpts from Kamala’s book since it was much needed after the frustration of last week. It’s going to be very hard to quote without sharing it all but I will choose my favorites.

I have to say this though, my thirst for knowledge always inspires many writings so looking up James Harris, who is listed as “Kamala” was a must. I do find much about these former pro wrestlers lives truly fascinating, despite many hardships which came their way.

To all the naysayers of Ultimate Warrior, Warrior, or how he handled himself professionally, read these upcoming quotes! I do hope there are not haters reading, but it’s still worth a mention. Many perhaps are trolling just looking for attention. To all the loyal and true UW and W fans out there, please read or get your copy of Kamala’s book. I will link the FB post as a PS, but unsure if you would be able to find it unless a member of the group. I can always try though. Maybe Warrior and Kamala reunited up in “parts unknown”, and again would greet each other as James. 🙂

Kamala liked his run with UW for so many reasons and that is always wonderful to read or hear since it does seem a rarity. There are plenty of guys who can and do have nice memories of working with UW, but these stories from Kamala’s book are priceless to me. I had a difficult time copying and printing it out so needed to ask for help. You’d think it would be so simple to screenshot the text, send as an email, and then print since that’s what we do. I miss having the printing app! Unfortunately, it wasn’t that easy as it’s from a social site but really~~~ that shouldn’t matter. I still don’t understand what was told to me by my husband with those concerns but I’m thankful I found a way to keep these words. Possibly a glitch is because it’s copyrighted material from a book, but I have done that tons of times so it’s still a mystery as I am not a tech person.

Without further ado, here are some of my favorite quotes from “Kamala Speaks” concerning his thoughts on working with The Ultimate Warrior. We’ll start with this one: “ his persistence and his success didn’t at all make him a bad person.” READ THAT MULTIPLE TIMES!!!! Most know Warrior wasn’t a “partier”, but Kamala states how: “ He felt it was disrespectful to their own minds, their bodies, and also the safety of their opponents.” These are things I knew but it’s great to read how someone else totally agreed and was the same way out of the ring. Yes, it alienated Warrior but staying true to principles was Warrior’s game, not snorting “ booger sugar”, as Kamala puts it.

Warrior understood some of the wrestlers situations of not getting paid well and offered Kamala rides in his limo instead of splitting the cost with other guys. UW was a bigger star so had extra perks, but DID help out the boys unbeknownst to many perhaps. Kamala was very humbled by UW’s gesture as he seemed to shrug off the money as no big deal when guys were struggling. Another kind act (as my title can be reversed here) by the other James H occurred a number of times. Kamala writes: “ You see, appreciating my efforts to make him look good, he had picked up my tab for one of the best rooms the hotel had to offer.” Kamala helped out a young “ Blade Runner” named Rock ( aka- James Hellwig) back in the day with face paint so the favor was returned many years later and then some! What a cool story…

Kamala was happy UW got inducted into the WWE HOF in 2014 and was finally understood by those in the business. He even says: “ A lot of people didn’t understand Jim Hellwig, but I did. He respected people that stood up for what they believed in.” THANK YOU JAMES HARRIS ( aka- Kamala) for your kindness towards Warrior which will always be known, felt, and I hope treasured by others outside of reading today. He made a few jokes too, so I loved his humorous take. From one tribal- like warrior to another, they shared similarities, despite not sharing physicalities!

I would love to know more, but so glad to have these pieces of his book. What a life Kamala had as much as extremely tragic. He had a great pro wrestling career though with so many moments to remember. I’m grateful to know Kamala and Warrior were friends. Neither played “the game” of a party lifestyle, and that in turn bonded them. To both James H’s~~ take a limo anywhere you wanna go and stay in THE best hotels wherever you are!

P.S. Kindness given is kindness well received. “ Hello James.”

“ Hello James.”

~~~ This is how they greeted each other (:

P.P.S. http://www.facebook.com/share/p/1V9rVKMgPr/

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Kathy’s “ Rivalries” Review… 😬

Yes, I used my name in a title! Another first I just had to go with of last week. This is a VENTING or RANTING post so if you aren’t an Ultimate Warrior fan, this might not be a read for you today. No need for trolls here… I once again~~~ did not want to talk this SH*T but it’s recent so here goes. It concerns the A & E “ WWE Rivalries” which aired Sunday, March 2 between UW and Hulk Hogan. Like I have said before~~~ I can be unbiased and am at times but for this episode, it just brought confusion and disappointment. 😑Most of it was recycled material from the past with obviously very little new info. Here are my thoughts and you can disagree if you wish but really, I’m sure others share in this very strong opinion.

Let’s start at the beginning. How about the commentators or “hosts” if you will. I understand their “ Superfan” there and Cody being the champ but Kevin Nash? Seriously? He couldn’t stand UW so getting him to “make nice” just for ratings is totally wrong. Maybe he was there because of the Hogan angle, who knows? Perhaps WWE needs to give these legends work but they should choose wisely. Natalya as well was a surprise. Are these the same people every week? I don’t know since I don’t watch. They need a woman there possibly and her family is from Canada where WMVI was held but still…. Gosh, I can be on a panel with those standards and I wasn’t a little kid when they had that rivalry, ha! It’s maybe just to take whoever or give their thoughts and stats on events so not sure but I was shaking my head. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Next, Paul Heyman who truly has that voice which bellows and is very dramatic. That part is fine as I am NOT bashing him. Then, they showed younger pics of UW as a teen or boy as we hear Paul’s words detailing Jim Hellwig’s troubled past. OK, that’s been said and showed before as we get a glimpse into why Jim wanted success. Their understanding could be also for new viewers who have not seen any of these shows. For them, it would be a first time. My concern about it is the * RIVALRY* aspect. If you’re going to show Jim’s past, what about Terry’s? Where are younger pics of Hulk and why don’t we hear his story? His background could be quite “boring” as Warrior had said about “ Hulkamania” , ha ha! I’m sure it has been shown in other bios, ( of course…) but would’ve worked well for this one discussing them BOTH. 🙄

Speaking of Hulk, a statement he said about the HOF saddened me and I so hope it isn’t true. If it is, I have lost some respect for him so very biased on this. He had said something like how much he wanted to speak to Warrior as we know and the convo that happened between them. What sucker punched me to the gut is when he made the comment about how he had to talk to Warrior because he looked so frail and weak. I do hope he had other reasons but it seemed like that was his 1st reason. I believe I can get corrected on that as Hulk isn’t a terrible person, but I don’t like many of his discussions or innuendos and those feelings have been there from me for years. He puts his foot in his mouth so to speak A LOT and it irks me about certain topics… Many do know Warrior did not look well, but don’t let his physical state be the * ONLY* reason you approached him. It’s just so frustrating to me always. Please correct me if I am wrong..,

Another point is THAT DVD from 2005 (which I won’t mention the title) that of course needed to be spoken about. I do realize the ugly stuff had to be part of these rivalries but are they serious though? That DVD was put out as Vince’s retaliation with Warrior’s lawsuits and it had nothing to do with the rivalry between him and Hulk. Yes, HH spoke on that DVD, but it was only produced because of Vince’s anger and seemed irrelevant to that particular episode despite it needing to come forward in other bios.

Isn’t Triple H the producer of these shows? To me, it was just another smear job on UW. I do understand how the “apology” was also part of it but they seem to forget all the GOOD the character of UW brought to WWF (E) for his brief times there. I can’t even think of anything positive they showed except for a few comments but like I said~~~ Kevin Nash I’m sure meant none of the positivity. Maybe I will try to view it again to see a different take as it’s just so upsetting. I also hope Triple H still has respect for Warrior and that it just wasn’t 11 years ago. Maybe this is a sign for me to not watch any of their Warrior content moving forward as my excitement just turns to despair. 😔

Hulk Hogan is still their “star” and I know he probably was upset with Warrior’s YouTube video on him years ago as that did become quite negative. I will say Warrior did go off a little too much but don’t we all at times? Some of it was actually quite comical to me though. 😂 Karma DID come back as W said. Hulk had called W a “ flash in the pan” and a “ zero” on that DVD. W got his revenge with his video in a way. Just my take on it… Hulk is not a “saint” and yet they are treating him like one these days after much animosity for years. All guilt based for sure. They can be that way as it’s right for the company but there are other issues to contend with.. It’s similar to Eric Bischoff’s statements for the millionth time about Warrior’s run in WCW of late ‘98. THEY contacted him, not the other way around to return. Did Eric really think Warrior would follow the “rules” exactly? Get over it already and let’s talk about something else instead of the same old thing!

One of these days, I wish a more uplifting series can be done but it would be without much footage unless someone gets in WWE’s back pocket. I understand ratings, but they act like Warrior was the devil 😈 or something and it’s just very unfortunate to his legacy, impact, and millions of fans all over…. *** That’s it~~~ vent and rant done. Like below, UW’s eyes will always be looking to those who loved and continue to love him…

P.S. F*CK what they think or do (to use a Warrior word.) Onto better news next week for sure! You won’t get an “apology” video from me, ever… 🤬

“ Hello, my name is…”

Happy March warriors! You will see down below ⬇️ a selfie of me as that is not going to happen so much this year. I had a photo all picked out but then decided a selfie was needed for today. You will know why as this post continues…

It’s my son’s birthday at the end of this month and he’s turning a biggie, 21! 🎉🥹 How is that possible? Still lots to talk about until then though. My title came to mind as I “wrestled” with others today. More on that in a bit, but did any of you watch “ WWE Rivalries” this past Sunday? I was going to mention it last week but totally forgot. 🤦🏻‍♀️ It was about the rivalry between Ultimate Warrior and Hulk Hogan. If you missed it, I’m sure you can find it once they unlock episodes through the A&E app. Maybe another reason I missed discussing it is because every time there would seem to be an upcoming episode on the Ultimate Warrior, it would get shelved for some reason. I might discuss this episode more in length in a future post but for anyone wondering, there was no new information so watch if interested… 🙄

Getting back to those name tags, has anyone ever worn one of those as I can picture exactly how they looked?! This was brought up because of a recent experience. I have many who contact me, but most are marketers and not fully legit with genuine interest in what I write. I also do my research or homework to check them out and this guy was the real deal who cohosts a national podcast. I actually listened to one of their episodes which vary in topics greatly. Jesse Ventura was on a little while back talking about legalizing marijuana which was very interesting. After a few emails and a very brief phone call, they decided to pass on having me on as a guest. No idea on how they found my blog as perhaps people just search?? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I will admit, I was a little disappointed considering the host is a huge wrestling fan but I do write about much else as you know. The phone call was quite abrupt too. The reason they passed and the * ONLY* reason they passed is because I am not Mrs. Warrior. She used to write a blog as well many years ago but not anymore. Yep, they thought I was Dana so maybe on these writings from now on~~~ I will need to possibly sign my name, goodness. 🫤 I have to say this, their loss! It wasn’t for me so I will move forward. BTW, most of their topics are not about the famous either. Also, for a few of these posts~~~ I have signed my name, but you won’t see it very often.

“ Hello, my name is Kathy.” It’s not Dana or even Steve- who was UW’s former manager. Yes, I have been called him too but always with apologizes attached which is super nice. My name is listed on the book as part of the “ profile” for these writings but people perhaps are busy, get too excited before contacting, or even don’t read. I will take some responsibility though so I thank them for bringing that to my attention. Warrior I’m sure would never get confused for another but I gotta say~~~ when he rocked the hair, sunglasses, and some outfits in public, many mention others. Some names I have heard are Bret Michaels (since UW wore a “Poison” hat on occasion,) Ozzy Osbourne ( in his younger days,) Steven Tyler, or even Jon Bon Jovi. All this without the face paint on naturally. Unsure if Warrior would look at any of those guys as complementary but I do know he was an “Aerosmith” fan among others! It’s not like anyone literally thought UW was actually those rockers but just how he resembled them at times in certain ways. UW being that character was a rockstar as I’ve said before… 🎸 Even outside of the character, he still was called those guys!!!

I have also gotten called a celebrity years ago as this woman, (bless her) thought I looked like the actress Lori Loughlin. I had reddish hair like she did when on the sitcom “ Full House” back in the day. I loved the connection, not only because of her beauty but I liked John Stamos then so even better! He was a guy along the same time frame as Warrior so that made my day. 🤭 I was humbled by her comment, but has that ever happened to you? Maybe it has but the impression on you wasn’t favorable. We all might get confused with another’s looks, personalities, or familiar connection but what about actually thinking you ARE that person? I bet that’s rare. Mistaken identity for sure.

Maybe we should all go around wearing those name tags, can you just imagine? All the mystery would be gone and everyone would know you automatically. Well, we know that’s not how the world works and then we wouldn’t have these funny stories to share. There are those times when many say some could have a doppelgänger of sorts. When vacationing in Maine several years ago, we saw this man who looked exactly like my Dad! He even glanced our way so eye contact was made. The kids said: “ What is Grandpa doing here?” 😂 It was comical but I have had other moments like that too. Come on, I bet you have very similar experiences. What about comments such as “ your voice sounds just like…” It could be your laugh, smile, or just expressions that reminds someone of a person who comes to their thoughts. I’m not talking about a relative as those related will share many traits. A famous person however, makes it cool. You might disagree but it’s still a fun topic of conversation.

On a different note, readers may remember when I was a vendor at a book fair many years past and the woman next to me reminded me of my aunt. My mom probably would not think she looked anything like her sister but I did, when younger. It was beautiful to me because a few months prior, my aunt had passed away so this woman brought me much comfort. I told her that too as we had the best time together. My stories (as yes she bought my book) comforted her as well since she recently lost her husband of many years. So see, we can have those “name tags” if you will even with strangers who don’t truly know who we are. Those spontaneous likenesses are so aligned it seems as random folks have no history with us. It’s just an observation. We can take it or leave it.

Another I will end with just popped in my head. A cousin of mine had told me how she thinks I resemble a younger Maria Shriver. Oh, my, I would never have guessed that! 😯 She is still very beautiful and my cousin meant it positively. I don’t see the resemblance but was touched that she did. Maria, (who is related to the Kennedys) used to be married to Arnold Schwarzenegger AND he met a young Jim Hellwig during his bodybuilding days. That is before Jim became the Ultimate Warrior or was even into wrestling. How about * THAT* connection? Maybe I won’t need a name tag after all. Until next time~~~ this is Kathy, not Dana, Steve, Lori, or Maria! Ha ha ha! 🙋🏻‍♀️

P.S. Oh~~~ I did follow a little of WWE’s “Elimination Chamber” just to see. No spoilers here but something shocking happened of course! 😳I am not happy about it. Just like I am not happy about that Rivalries special as well, ugh. Anyways~~~ be YOU warriors because everybody else has their own name… 🫵🏻

Steel Cage Survivor ⛓️

“ The caged bird sings…of things unknown but longed for still and his tune is heard…and he names the sky his own.”

~~~ Caged Bird by

Maya Angelou

I have paraphrased that popular poem above as it relates to the photo of Ultimate Warrior used today. Once looking at it, I decided if any references fit and that poem came to me. I had forgotten Maya wrote a book titled that as well, so I did some research just to “rope” it all in. I think those stanzas above fit with Warrior, don’t you? No, I’m not thinking of “ The Birdman” Koko B. Ware here! The WWF years were known for many steel cage matches. One I thought about (of course) was SummerSlam ‘90 when UW got that IC belt back from “Ravishing” Rick Rude. Another was mentioned in my book: “ Spirit and Belief” involving “ Macho King” Randy Savage and “ Sensational” Queen Sherri. UW lost that match but slammed Sherri at the end. I know there were others and he wasn’t always the “survivor” like my title implies, but we all can be~~ even without a WWF (E) Survivor Series.

We all tend to be in those steel cages of sorts~~~ is yours blue? Think about it just a moment. When we’re young, we get raised in our parents’ home (hopefully most do) and have their values, rules, and all that they teach us. It’s not really a cage but we learned from those four walls first before anywhere else. It’s like a fortress nobody can bend or break, until we want out. I’m not saying all of us totally rebel but there will come a time when we need and should be out on our own to begin a new.

I feel like a caged animal with all this winter snow we are still having! I love my home life and like to be comfy, but then have to just get out. We all need to do that at times despite the outside world. For me, I still have those moments like a caged bird singing hoping someone hears me. That can act as a metaphor with these writings to all of you but I mean something deeper. I know I am of service but often ask myself if there is more. Are there more ways I can break out of my steel cage to serve? Quite possibly when we move in a few years, I will receive new downloads in a new environment. It is desperately needed as who knows what the future will bring. For right now, maybe my life is to remain in this cage of sorts like I said before with the presence to just be. When we know we should change something, we’ll feel it but if not, perhaps that’s OK for the time being. We all don’t contribute to life in the same way and shouldn’t.

I have studied much spiritually these last 11+ years (yes, a few before Warrior passed) and I’ve learned A LOT. I can do so much more or get certified in other forms of energy healing, but don’t feel compelled to do so. Maybe later in my life there will come a time for that. For me though, I’m seldom a creature of habit in that way. My meditations are pretty consistent with how I practice and what I use, but in other areas ~~~ I tend to stray out of my cage. Yoga studios changed, how I approached the Fairs changed as I seek out speakers now instead of vendors, and all this is good. Life needs to be kept moving. I’m not a “lifer” in many paths except a few. Warrior was the same. We became multi passionate seekers. I have said before how wrestling wasn’t going to be his entire career with nothing else, and my life went in that direction as well. I never returned to teaching preschool and have no desire to do that again. I feel more like a student and not a teacher so much anymore.

Do any of you feel caged in a way waiting for the escape hatch or door to open? There’s a chance you wanna break through those bars but aren’t sure how. We might not have that tag team partner to tap us in or out really, and we have to decide on our own. There is a no scripted wrestling match pre-decided for us, but we are still performers acting in our life with free will. Sometimes we need a blank slate, canvas, (or even cage,) to truly see what lies before us.

I am realizing how that fits for me. “ Life is like a dress rehearsal” which Warrior said and we don’t always have the answers or it all figured out. Let that be how it needs to be for a while. You can decide without rushing to get out of the cage before the match ends. You can ring your own 🔔 and know your worst opponent is yourself. We are free to come and go in our cage without it feeling like a trap keeping us locked in. Be that co-creator you are meant to be as the Universe isn’t going to do all the work for you. If you rush into something~~~ that is not your soul, but the ego deciding for you. Yes, sometimes it’s OK to be spontaneous but big changes require much thinking. Just don’t overthink and talk yourself out of a new thing. Follow those passions warriors so your cage is a safe haven, but not one you are stuck in forever.

My caged bird sings for more but what that is has yet to be determined. She is searching, but it remains unknown for now. I know I’m heard and when a time arises, I will be ready. All this prep work isn’t for nothing! You need to believe in that too despite what isn’t working in your life right now or if you feel a bit frustrated. We might lose direction and want the old cage, but birds need to fly (even out of nests) and explore. Remember~~~ it’s the journey, not the destination.

P.S. Be the Ultimate Survivor of your own cage match, you deserve to be the victor! Come and go as you please or begin again. It’s all up to you…🤼‍♀️💪🏻🫵🏻

Make Life Simple 🩵☺️

A little sidenote here with bringing up last week for a minute. I forgot to say this, but “ Express Yourself” by Madonna was one of my songs on a mixed tape. 📻 I had many tapes, but remembered that song being on one so there ya have it! Those were the days for sure when kids (probably mostly teen girls) had blank tapes in the deck waiting for a favorite song to come on the radio. We loved it all despite easier conveniences of today. I still have all mine, but can’t play them anymore… 😞 *** AND a correction here… “Fantasy” NOT “ Emotions” by Mariah Carey was played at the dentist’s office. I actually remembered it in the middle of the night! Crazy how things come to me so I just had to share that… 🤪

You’ll notice that smiling photo of Ultimate Warrior back in his early days below. Ah yes~~~ he had the best smile. 😊 He also inspired my title today as no, not always! I decided to watch a little of the “Always Believe” DVD, just some snippets of my choosing. I rarely watch Disc 1 much but closer to the HOF moments, I will more along with parts of 3. Warrior was talking about life in the beginning of the DVD. Most fans know how he portrayed the character of UW, which allowed him to be somebody larger than life which then allowed him the opportunity to do life his way~~~on his terms. Warrior got the chance to be a superhero of sorts, which then enabled him to do a simple thing called LIFE. Huh? What does that mean exactly?

I will expand on his words somewhat today as I have in the past but for many of us, it can be tricky. Life isn’t always simple. It’s messy and complicated at times, right? It sure is but again warriors~ it’s all on how we respond to it that matters. I do realize that some of you readers will highly disagree with me and frankly, I don’t blame you. After all, many are in dire circumstances or distraught with pain, family obligations, debt, and lots of other scenarios. I get it, truly I do. This isn’t about all that although I am not naïve to the frustrations of others. It’s real and it’s ugly quite often.

We need the simple though, we absolutely do. When was the last time you did something simple and easy but were fine with it? Really FINE with it? No big fuss, no extravagant details but maybe bordering on boredom? That’s good once in a while despite warriors probably thinking that if one isn’t busy, it’s not living. That is false, so don’t buy into that expression. The reason people don’t want downtime is because it scares them. Yep, it does. When you aren’t on the go all the time, your mind might play tricks on you but here’s the great part. You don’t have to let it!

There are the moments when we need alone, quiet, or stillness to think and let our soul speak to us. That doesn’t mean to sound crazy, but inspiring. Be creative and do something fun that isn’t so cerebral or brain based. I’m not saying to be irresponsible but just to lighten up some. Even warriors need fun and silly stuff, including Mr. Warrior himself . I have shared plenty on here… 🤭 We can have our thinking caps on (like I used to say to my preschoolers) but shake those ropes and let your heart decide what will come next. I know it’s ultimately hard for many of us to do, but we need it all. By all I mean the head, heart, and gut like I say on repeat. The gut has the final say so let it be your #FinalBoss.

Making life simple will look different for any of us. It can be to declutter, buy frugal (yet nice,) plan an easy day, or things similar. Don’t be bored out of your skull but just to~ here it comes~ my mantra~ “go with the flow.” See where the day takes you if you can without the hustle and bustle of work, schedules, or routines. We need our livelihood for sure but make space with a relaxing time to just be. It can entail a self love day or just hanging with those you want. That could’ve been mentioned last week! Sometimes, we do have to schedule those kinds of events but please fit them in because it’s necessary. You don’t wanna leave this planet someday and think all you did was work, work, work, do you? Again, I do understand commitments and expectations to survive financially but life is supposed to be fun too, correct? It sure is and most of us crave more of it.

I know if I don’t get a little break from heavy events that drain me, I would scream or should I snarl? 😬Even just a simple change in environment helps too. It might not be much but the serotonin in our brains will respond along with our endorphins of the heart. Listen to what your intuition tells you. I am doing that more and more without overthinking or overreacting. This means I’m not analyzing so much that I can’t just * FEEL * my way through a situation. Yes, we need the logic but allow the simple to come forward. Life will be easier when we respond in healthy ways instead of giving into those negative feelings of insecurity, doubt, or worry.

Warrior allowed his life to become simpler as he withdrew more from the professional business of wrestling. No, he didn’t just sit around on his 10 acres in New Mexico but found exciting ways to let life work in different directions with more flow. He was always a busy guy for sure but listened to his gut, which determined how life would go. Warrior always did that but with his family, it became more simple for him to just be without obligation or pressure. Life can be simple warriors if we let go of those ropes just a little and allow ourselves to flow into who we truly came here to be. I hope you can let life work for you and not work for your life. Then, like Warrior you can say “…to make a life and to be ME!” 👏🏻🏜️🥰

P.S. if any of you are followers of “ 80’s Wrestling the Podcast,”

they have a new platform since late December. It’s called Podbean, which you may be familiar with. Just download the app as it is so easy to navigate. There even is a chat room during the live episodes… Check them out sometimes if you are able… 👍💪🏻🤼‍♀️

My February Loves

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Hello everyone! Here we are just 2 days before that “ LOVE” holiday of Valentine’s Day. I have shared my husband’s and I story of getting engaged that day (24 years ago now) but that post was last year. I wish you all a beautiful day so please celebrate however it works in your life. Over here, our local shops were having a “ Ghoulentine’s Day.” They have had “ Galentines”for the gals but ghouls? I’m not sure what it was all about as I associate ghouls with Halloween. 👻🤔 Well, if it got the places business and foot traffic, I’m sure it was a fun yet different theme…. You’ll notice I use that word of love in the title once again so maybe next time, it won’t be around February! 💘

The photo today got used on Instagram last month as part of my 400th post so I kept it for these writings. I should’ve put it on here but wanted to use a UW pic then so now it’s time to bring it to show my love. I of course, like you have many things associated with this day of love but it brings another yearly mention. 33 years ago, I started my “version” with working out down in the basement of my childhood home. That story is in my book : “ Spirit and Belief” as it began very comically indeed. 🤭 It was during the Winter Olympics of ‘92 as I was feeling blah with cabin fever. Much has evolved with my routine naturally as I practice yoga, but sometimes need new to activate different muscles and my core.

My daughter actually brought that up just the other day. She noticed our arm weights near the fireplace where they sit. She knows this but asked if I had weights in my old home. I laughed and said: “ Do you think your grandparents would’ve bought those back then?” 😂It could’ve been my Dad though as he got much into fitness in his mid 40s, but my Mom was not interested. Some of that is generational for sure and she did walk or bike a little but not working out in other ways and that’s fine. We never had equipment at all as my Dad used the machines at work. I just thought it was amusing how she brought up the weights like they were new sitting in that space! Fitness is a love of mine as well, so it can be and is one of my ideas I will bring with this title. Hard to believe it began when I was just 19, going on 20. Most of my adult life too…

Here’s another love of mine. Loyal readers, can you guess? What are some other connectors which become funny like today that I’ve brought up MANY times? OK, I will fill you in. Music and songs, of course! Always a love of mine and always will be. I will share a few songs that I heard most recently but you know with me, it isn’t just that simple sometimes. I’m gonna say a 3️⃣ count although one I had mentioned before…. My husband and I wanted to use this 10% off coupon for “ Texas Roadhouse” that we got at the basketball game a few weeks ago. Typically though, he is either in the middle of doing something or isn’t aware of the time. Restaurants fill up pretty quickly around here near dinner time and especially on a Saturday night.

We got to the parking lot and it’s packed! I knew it. I’m not much of a steak person anyways, but I’d find something. We left though and never went in. So, we decided on “Ruby Tuesdays” nearby as I love the garden bar! 🥗I did get shrimp 🍤as well so it was a yummy time. 😋They were playing such fun 80s songs as perhaps “ Texas Roadhouse” would not have. See, we were meant to be there~~~ at least I was anyway! It took so much for me to A~ not dance in my seat or move while eating and B~ not to laugh. OMG moments here we come as I share my fun and silly Kathy memories. 😜

The first song played was “ Word Up” by Cameo. Does anyone remember this one? It was very popular when I was in high school. In fact, I think maybe I was a junior when the seniors used that song for a skit. I totally remember them dancing to that all those years ago. Why this song on here you might ask? Well…… just add two letters and switch it from “ Word Up” to…. you can probably guess. They spell the song so go from there. I’m still laughing and all these years later can recall the skit with my little play on words., Teen Kathy, I love her. 🙋🏻‍♀️Not just in February either, ha ha. The thing is, I don’t think I’ve ever heard that song in public, *** EVER***. Even more special. Me dancing in my seat giggling, can you just picture it?

The second song was when I walked up to the garden bar and all of a sudden I hear: “ Come on girls, do you believe in love? ‘Cause I got something to say about it and it goes something like this...” Know the song? It’s “ Express Yourself” by Madonna. Yep, another goodie with my little memory bank. You can look up the other lyrics but do some fit for this post? Ultimately, yes they do! I even had some actions for a few verses, oh my. How did I keep my food down with my husband sitting across from me? 🤣 It is one of my favorite Madonna songs as it fits for me too.

The last one was “ Emotions” by Mariah Carey. I had mentioned this one at the dentist’s office a few years back. I can’t hit her high notes but try to do my best, just not in a crowded restaurant with on lookers thinking I’m crazy! Those 3️⃣ songs can relate to Valentine’s Day too. OK, “Word Up” has no “psychological romance”, but dancing is great to love! Both “ Express Yourself” and “ Emotions” are also perfect for this holiday. I as usual first say to myself: “ No way am I sharing that experience” but then I decide to anyway. We need to make fun of ourselves sometimes, right? So, if you can’t or don’t want to celebrate Vday, just read this post for a couple of great laughs at my expense. I truly won’t mind. Enjoy all your loves whatever they may be. I know you’re singing now, right? I am as usual. 🎤🎼🥰

P.S. Love to you all for making me part of your day! Happy Valentine’s Day. Love the warrior YOU are! 🫵🏻

P.P.S. Guess we’ll use that 10% off another time… 🤷🏻‍♀️

Rockin’ the Game💙💪🏻

Month number two 2️⃣ of 2025 is here. February is the shortest month but how about the date today of 2/5/25. Love that repetitive number, so cool. I hope it’s a great day for all you warriors out there. How are your goals going so far with this new year of beginnings? I’m trying new vitamins and finally did a celery detox. It’s really not that bad for all you who aren’t into one of the best vegetables for us. I’m not getting preachy but sometimes we need to just try something new and for me, it was a celery smoothie. Maybe I don’t need a list after all as I just go for what I want to try and see what happens. Keep going yourselves warriors and do the work!

That guy down below did the work as you fans know. Let’s get into that pic of a young Jim Hellwig when he was known as “ Rock” with “ The Blade Runners.” I had no idea how hairy he was! 😬 This photo I shared with my brother as we often play a guessing game of WWF(E) Superstars. Both of us see them on various media sites so this was the second one I sent to him of Warrior. The first one was of Jim as a teen that I saw from his biography a few years back. I stumped him with a teen photo and a Blade Runner one, win win for me! I will say he has stumped me more times though. So, I felt compelled to use that unrecognizable (to my brother) photo of “Rock” today.

Gearing up for the present, Triple H was just announced as the 1st inductee into the 2025 HOF class. The Ultimate Warrior was ALSO announced as the first inductee of the 2014 class 11 years ago. Triple H deserves this honor and I’m so happy for him. Some may not be fans of his and I did not follow his career much but nowadays, I know more. UW fans will remember how he was in that ring as part of WMXII being a young Hunter Hearst Helmsley. Triple H was also instrumental in bringing Warrior back to the WWE, as his career deserves to be recognized for all that it was. I’m very excited to hear his speech. Bring on “ The Game!” It’ll be an emotional one for sure.

Did any of you watch the Royal Rumble? I did not but just wanted to know results, surprises, or my interest in John Cena~~~ who is considered to be “The GOAT.” I did a post on that years ago if you readers can recall. Just look for a pic of an actual goat! 🐐 I thought that would be funny to use so glad I did. 35 years ago this past January brought Hulk Hogan and Ultimate Warrior face-to-face for several seconds during 1990’s Royal Rumble. That was leading up to WMVI with its * BIG* anniversary coming in April, stay tuned! I am happy WWE still has these original PLE’s (formally PPV’s) that are part of their history. The big 4 will remain hopefully as they of course, added a few others over time.

Did you notice how I combined Warrior and Triple H for the title today? Sometimes, I just start writing without working on a subject too much and it just flows into one. “Rockin’ the Game” came to me so that was it. I can ask you all a question here as it does relate. How do you interpret that title above? You can rock your game in many ways by just kicking a** in whatever you do. That’s what Warrior did, would say, and I know Triple H is the same. I thank God he survived his heart surgeries of a few years ago as WWE needed him around, we all still do. He has made so many more positive changes as head of creative, I hope it continues.

Even though I do not watch their content, I decided to watch the most recent “ Saturday Night’s Main Event” a few weeks prior. I saw the entire show which I couldn’t do last time. I probably won’t again and despite talent of today, nostalgia will be there for me in many ways. UW is in the opening sequence too, and I will always love the entrance theme music. I hope it sticks around. 😁🎼

Look for a link at the end today of my write up on the 25th anniversary of WMXII back in 2021. It’s all about the trust developed between Warrior and Triple H overtime and how they formed a friendship. I reread it (obviously) so I only thought it fitting to include again. If you’ve already read it, I believe it’s worth another read! Just ignore the website info as previously stated since that no longer exists. Plus, ignore the vacation statement too. That was shortly after my ulcer…

Getting back to rockin’ the game here, warriors. Can you honestly say that about anything in your life? I can but then will never be an expert. It’s OK to feel good about our stuff as you know and all of you can relate to your strengths. Those weaknesses can improve too if you truly try. Just don’t push yourself to exhaustion because even though Warrior did in many aspects, most of us aren’t former bodybuilders or pro wrestlers. Do what you can, when you can, and feel proud of it all. You can still rock your game without going to extremes and that means in other ways too, not just the physical. There will always be someone who seems to be doing it better but don’t let that clothesline you down! Get up and stay in the match however it works for you. Whatever your “game” is, play it strong, bold, and brave like warriors do. Maybe Triple H was called “The Game” for many reasons besides wrestling. He had other names, but I like that one for him.

Rock your game, warriors . Become inducted in your own Hall of Fame as your own recipient. The only winner in any Royal Rumble needs to be the one who rocked it all to win it all. Always believe that winner is YOU…

P.S. Here is the link to the 25th anniversary of WMXII with my thoughts on Warrior and Triple H’s friendship…

http://www.mywarriorwritings.com/a-genuine-trust/

My Happy “ Harmotions” 😬😍

Yes, warriors that is a word as I did look it up. Guess it’s some computer game, but that certainly isn’t my definition! Warrior had “ Destrucity,” I can have “ harmotions.” I was thinking too much in my head (super typical) and somehow combined hormones with emotions so there you have it, a new word of mine. I laughed so hard and decided it fit perfectly with today’s post. 😂 After all, there are words like “ kranch” and “ hangry,” right? Last week’s very emotional post made me know I need the humor back and my bet is, you do too. That pic you see of a plush Ultimate Warrior was sent to me by my cousin the day we were heading to TN for my niece’s wedding in December! I got it from her shortly after we arrived~~~ how awesome was that? To know she was thinking of our travels and my anxiety means the world. I never asked her where she spotted him as she included no explanation, but it made the rest of the day truly ultimate. I just had to use it as a photo, of course! Isn’t he great?

Another happy “ harmotion” happened a few weeks ago on a Monday night. My Ohio State Buckeyes college football team became the 2025 National Champions! They were facing those Irishmen~~~ Notre Dame. I usually don’t follow that much but when one of my OH teams gets to a final, you bet I’ll be watching. Just like when my Cavaliers won the NBA title almost 9 years ago now as many probably know who they faced! Hint if you don’t here… It’s been mentioned many times and is also in my book. Gee~~~ I wonder what their team name is? 🤔 ~~~ Getting back to college, it was a great game but OSU was blowing their lead. Notre Dame could’ve tied it and even went ahead, but that did not happen! The Bucks won 34-23 without an overtime. I was so super excited to see them win but there’s more. The last time they won was in 2014. See where this is going? That was 11 years ago and they also won by 11 points. There’s a great number connection once again. The master number I have referenced before so how about that? ❤️🩶🏈👏🏻

It gets better warriors. Shortly after the win, I had realized about that number 11. I put it together with the date of their last win (made me think of Warrior) and the points won by. My right ear started ringing. Yep, it sure did so thanks Warrior~~~ message received. Happy harmotions again because I always believe. 👂🏻 🤍 It was a fantastic night, but boy do I hate nailbiter games! It’s always fun when our sports teams win a biggie because of the rarity. Other teams win much but Ohio does not so our fans are expected to go a little nutty. 🌰 Hey, a buckeye is a nut and that’s our state tree. “ Brutus the Buckeye” is also the team mascot for anyone wondering. He could so fit with the Golden Era of the WWF years having the double B’s. Just not “Brutus the Barber,” ha ha!

Do any of you have some happy harmotions going on lately? OK, it doesn’t need to sound like your teen years with that word combo but come on, we need those moments of giddiness sometimes right? I love when I get mine and that’s why sometimes have to jot them down if they can get used in a post. I know many of you don’t do that but just think of some stuff that gave you those great feelings! It’s kind of like my cloud 9️⃣ “go tos” of a few weeks ago. I bet you have yours and you know what? Just because we are adults doesn’t mean the joy filled child like antics need to go away. Alright, we do need to be responsible but just once in a while it is OK to be a little nutty! My daughter even said how I got more excited than her dad did. She said to him : “ Mama gets more into it than you.” She meant her dad. Aren’t guys supposed to get into the game more? He does and did but my harmotions always overtake many situations. Sometimes that’s a good thing but then other times, I have to keep it in check. Are you like this?

You readers who follow frequently know that aspect about me, especially concerning Warrior and all my years of sharing on here. Really though, it can be anything and yes~~~ I do have other times that bring up the harmotions. Will you start using that word now? I have to keep auto- correcting it!!! I hope you do or just create your own. That just came out of me and was very spontaneous. It’s the best feeling and I laughed a long time about it, still kinda am. 🤣🤣 We need to find those bursts of happy things in many ways. I get tickled over a great meal, a song I hear, ( you all know this,) a new place to visit, or anything similar. Our lives have to be shaken up a bit just like how UW shook those ropes. Life will have its crazy promos that no one can make sense out of but you. We also have that moment of splashing down for the win. Yes, those were references to UW for non-wrestling fans wondering “huh?” but they fit here metaphorically speaking.

Find your happy harmotions warriors. It doesn’t have to be hormone crazy, but perhaps harmonious instead based on a blissful emotion. There, I adulted it up a bit for you all. Warrior had that sense of humor when he wanted and most didn’t see it much. Mine is quite the same. I’m glad there are some memories out there with him because take it from me like I have said~~~ he STILL is funny. I can and do speak on that so believe if you wish. Here’s to many happy harmotions in your life. Be open to anything that fills you up in the best way. Mine were that plush UW doll, a football game win, and the number 11 with my ear ringing. A 3️⃣ count, yay!

P.S. You can also get back to WWF here with happy harmotions being HH! Wait~~~ no, not Hulk Hogan! BTW, I heard he just became a Grandpa to twins! His daughter is now a mom. 💙🩷

Make A Difference 🤍

“ Wake up Sleeping Beauties!”

I do know I referenced that phrase spoken (or maybe kinda yelled) from Warrior, but it resonated with me. I don’t believe he was saying that down below in that photo but it was yet another inspiring shot of him in his barn gym back at Casa de Warrior in New Mexico. Also, Sleeping Beauty, (a.k.a. Princess👸 Aurora) was always my favorite and she’s the same age as Warrior was which is * NOT* my reason, ha ha. I did mention that in a post years ago. We need to wake up and KNOW~ just know we do make a difference. We have to and NEED to believe that. This bears repeating and I don’t want to sound redundant, but it totally fits with what I am sharing today.

*** Extremely personal post***

Earlier this month, the world lost a beautiful young woman who was best friends with my niece. She was only 20, almost 21. The same age as my son as well. Her celebration of life is this weekend and I’m certain that will be an extraordinary event. I never met her but everyone and I mean everyone who had known her has the most kindest things to say in her memory. It just so happens she shared the same name as our cat~~~ Hannah. I always loved that name as it was one I considered for my daughter. Who would’ve thought years later, it would resurface for one of our pets. My Mama brain remembered. Hannah means “ GRACE” and this girl exuded just that. She fought a hard battle with a rare form of cancer and is survived by an older brother. Her parents had already lost twin boys at a few months old prematurely years prior, so she was their girl of saving grace… 🤍

I cannot imagine losing 3 children but I do believe in a higher purpose~~~ despite such tremendous loss. That remarkable young lady came here to help her parents get stronger, to be a light of goodness, and to make a difference in many ways. She reminds me so much of a friend of mine who passed almost 2 years ago now. She was the same age as my sister and left behind her husband and 3 kids…. Their son is the same age yet again as mine and they went thru school together… Everyone who knew my friend adored her smile and contagious laughter. These people are Earth angels spreading positivity to all in lieu of what is going on around them. I have sent my niece comforting words as I hope they resonated with her. ❤️‍🩹She’s struggling without her bestie of these past 9 years, but Hannah made her stronger too~~~she just didn’t know it back then.

I’m not writing all this to make you readers sad or even angry about lives cut short in a way. I’m writing because I need my title’s reminder too. I try to be positive but those two beauties just glowed in ways I can only envy. They made a difference with their outgoing styles, but we all can and do even though we might not be like they were. None of us are Little Miss or Mr. ☀️ Sunshine all the time, we can’t be~~~ but some rise above the yuck just by their very presence. It’s something we should all attain to.

Warrior spoke often about us all having genius inside, how our life matters, not to waste our time, and so much more but many of us don’t have that platform of celebrity like he did. We do, however, have much today than we ever have with social media and ways of communicating if we wish. Even if you’re not a media person, please always believe in your goodness. We may falter and aren’t perfect, but we can’t give up and think it’s all for nothing. You and I and everyone makes a difference so we need to count the small ways. If it’s someone you disagree with, they (even with your eye rolling, 🙄) make a difference too.

Often times I wonder if I’m doing enough or saying enough, but then there are times when I think~~~ that’s it for today. We might not do big, extravagant actions for the whole world to notice but someone, somewhere is very appreciative for your existence~~~ believe me. I might not hear from readers of this blog very often or even other media responses but I know there are those who read or I wouldn’t be doing this at all as I thank those who do… We also don’t have to share much with others, but the universe is a co-creator with you on your life to make a difference. It’s your hobbies, your livelihood, your passions, how you treat people, and everything about you that matters. We just have to trust the process, do what we can, and let the rest go.

I’m not asking you all to live in fear because of a possible shorter lifespan, not at all. I’m also not bringing in guilt over mortality as that is not my place nor is it anyone’s. Everyone of us has a unique purpose and mission. We may not fully know exactly what ours is or even understand others, but it exists as you just have to find it inside. Speak positively to yourself always as Warrior preached to us all. That makes a difference too as it doesn’t have to be actions but words spoken get heard. They might not be by another if they choose to not listen but your soul responds to what you are sending out. You can look up perspectives, but they don’t need to be obligatory. None of us does life in the exact same way and we shouldn’t have to. Sure, we have our ego that gets in the way sometimes, but you can override that by getting over fear and into love. It all starts with you warriors. Some have that natural ability to do that like those ladies I mentioned, but we all can~~~just in our own ways.

My friend and my niece’s were amazing and always there to lend a hand, smile, or bring joy that will never be replaced. Their journeys were short here but we need to learn from how they lived~~~ which was with passionate hearts. I’m humbled by their time here and yet need to believe I make a difference by just being me. That is enough on some days or any day really. Warrior wanted and still wants this message known too. See the good in others and be the good in this world. Those 3 made a difference~~~ go make yours. I do ***HOPE *** Hannah sends my niece a spiritual sign of some kind soon if she can. It’s the best feeling… 🥹🙏🏻

P.S. To all those recently affected by loss, I send you healing grace. My niece’s middle name is also Grace…

P.P.S. On a lighter note, maybe I’ll watch my copy of “ Sleeping Beauty.” 😴👑 💗

Warrior Odds & Ends

I decided to use a short phrase from last week to “rope” into today’s title. Yep, it’s kinda a part 2 with mixed up tag teams if you will. I love that shot of UW below smiling after WMVIII when they held a press conference. It was mostly about his return to WWF after a 6- 7 month long absence. WrestleMania season is coming soon and for all you WWE followers, my prediction is John Cena will be part of it for sure with 2025 being his retirement. We’ll see how the Royal Rumble goes first!

***A few days ago, it was the 11th anniversary of when the Ultimate Warrior was announced as part of the 2014 HOF class. My statements about time are yin and yang ☯️ but I have to say, 11 is a great spiritual number. Well, they all can be but 11 is a master in many ways as I have stated before. I will take it for this year with Warrior… 💙

Let’s stay with numbers here as this actually is a big part of the post today. Going back to December ( I know again…) brought 9 years since I began my meditation journey. I’ve told that story of getting a panic attack, texting my sister, and finding the CALM app, which I still use today. After that brought the dreams in 2016, which was~~~ you guessed it 9 years ago. 2025 also adds up to 9 for any of you numerologists reading. I’m not a pro but most know my connections to numbers. Also, my birthdate has a lot of 9’s but nope- I am an 11… See, great number this year… I will have to get out my book and reread a few of my first spirit visit dreams from Warrior, which is my tradition this time of year. After beginning meditation, a month later~ the dreams began. They’ve all been written, but those first ones are in my book, 📗” Spirit and Belief” if you’re new here.

The next number 9 gets its own paragraph because well, it just does. Some may recall the story of a visit to my psychic friend which will be 6 years this year, but that’s not the 9 reference of course. Near the end of our session when Warrior came through, he had said “ cloud 9.” She asked if that had any reference to me at all or if I say that popular phrase often. I really didn’t but do know what it means. She relayed how that phrase would help me in times of stress or to just think of him ( Warrior) as he is one of my cloud 9’s. Parts of that time were comical to me but I tell you what~~~ it worked and still does. I made a little paper cloud with a number 9️⃣ in the middle to adorn my writing box for years. Just recently, I made another as the other got worn out! My go to cloud 9’s are many with Warrior being right up there at the 🔝. I thank him for working through my friend to deliver that much needed message. 🥹

I’ll stick with this topic a little regarding my writing and journal box. I’ll stick with it as it involves stickers. Oh, this story is just too cute and made me laugh as I was putting away my writings of last week. I’m still smiling over this! 🥰 I had seen those WWF magazines in my box from “ The Wrestling Collector” store last summer (remember how I got a free one?) and decided to get them out for possible future post ideas. It was then how I noticed a sticker on the side of the November ‘90 issue with UW on the cover. My daughter still loves stickers and gives me some to decorate my journals and such with. I use enough and give her back the rest. For some reason, this one sticker with a **BEAUTIFUL** word got stuck to the side of that issue! It seems odd how it got placed like it is, but I’m leaving it on. It works in that spot. Also, it could’ve been ANY of the stickers she gave me of various words, cute animals, etc., but it is the perfect one. I’m still smiling. ☺️ 💖

Well, that brings me to another book I mentioned a little last week. I wanted a new library book as it’s time again. With it being so cold outside, I chose a closer smaller library. They have limited selections, but I did see an author’s name I recognized. It’s an easy read but next time, I’ll venture further out. I go to check it out along with some movies and after trying twice, a librarian needed to assist. She had to type in the number as the scanner wouldn’t work. A message pops up that the library no longer recognizes this title! What? It’s 5 years old, but they only stock current books. She said how it’s mine to keep! I know libraries sometimes have book sales but this was new to me. Guess it happens a few times a week, how about that? Once again though, it fits for me in my life right now with areas I need to work on. The author is this woman who is now almost 90, a Buddhist nun, and has a great sense of humor despite some serious chapters on spirituality. I got a free book and a lovely chat that day! Little wins, warriors…

My Warrior odds and ends are winding down this week as I pin them to the mat. Sometimes, we don’t need a big topic or area to discuss as the small ones matter too. Just go with the flow of your day and see what transpires. Start off with a grateful heart and let the universe guide you to find those little moments of happiness. They are there if you just let go and allow them to find you. No press conference, psychic friend, or bigger plans need to be made. Sometimes, it’s just a fun sticker or a free library book. I even get excited for those aligned numbers, how about you?

For these last few weeks, I also haven’t had my “cheat sheets” with notes. Nope, not once so far for this month. I have written that way before but 3 weeks has got to be a record. Not sure what next week will hold, but I got my photos for this month so that’s set at least! I hope your goals~~~ not resolutions are going well if you’ve made any. Dream BIG as I need too as well. Don’t let Mr. or Ms. Resistance get to you. Make sure you are the winner in that match which is your life. For my friends up north, stay warm and safe during this snowy cold winter. It’s that indoor more introspective time of kinda hibernating but do what makes you feel good. Find your own cloud 9️⃣ , make one, or even find a positive sticker that makes you SHINE, laugh, and anything ultimate!

P.S. I haven’t used the word ultimate or Warrior since September in a title. That’s probably another record…

P.P.S. I did see some more current numbers for RAW’s premiere on Netflix. 4.9 million… We shall see if that continues as WWE moves forward globally! 🌎